My definition of success is the ability to live as often as I can feeling good, better, and happy; regardless of whether I’ve achieved or acquired what I want.
That does not mean I don’t have a desire for things. Heck, no. The list of things I would like to acquire and achieve is long enough to keep me busy for many lifetimes. There are things I can do, and practice, to feel joy, not angst, on the way to achieving and acquiring those things I want. This is different than believing I will be happy only when I achieve those things.